Moving Forward
Taking Risks is the Right Thing to Do
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in business it’s that all risks weigh the same. It’s the consequences that are measured in degrees of danger.
In February 1988, I spent a quiet hour talking with Carol Shields, the late Governor General’s Award and Pullitzer Prize-winning author, about the challenges of becoming a writer. I was pondering a freelance career, contemplating whether leaving a dead end job for an unsure future was ingenious or ill-advised.
To Carol, moving forward was the only choice. “Why are you still working at a job you don’t like?” she asked. The clear resolve in her question had an impact. A few months later I’d quit my job and transitioned into writing as a livelihood.
Twenty-three years later, I’m still taking risks, albeit mitigated ones. As an independent contractor, every decision can be unpredictable but experience allows you to measure risk and reward on a scale that places as much emphasis on personal wellbeing as pure profit. It’s a perk of not having to prove yourself again and again, of risking your reputation by taking on unqualified and unappreciative clients.
Risk can be a bully with a sharp stick. It takes courage to stand up for an idea or a belief and to move forward in the face of doubt. Self-determination also requires vision because it’s the ability to see the result of your actions that will inspire the single-mindedness needed to get the job done.
Every time you take a risk you eliminate a regret. Risky situations have a default setting and the moment you back down because of fear or indecision, remorse sets in. As a rule, a life filled with regret is a life lived without taking chances. You may not always succeed but you’re never a failure for having tried.
I’m grateful that I integrated Carol Shield’s wise counsel into my personal decision-making all those many years ago. Moving forward without regret was – and always is – the right thing to do.

Bernie
Thanks for the kind words Susanne and Mary-Juen,
When Matt asked me to write a guest post for his blog, it gave me an opportunity to reflect on how risk plays a big part not only in business but our daily lives as well. We all have someone in our lives who was there at a vital turning point, supporting or cajoling us, ensuring that the risks we take are for the most noblest of reasons.
I’m glad my words resonated. I guess that’s what writers wish for. :)
Susanne
Your comment about taking a risk eliminating regrets is wonderful and so true. A former boss of mine told me “it’s only people who don’t do anything that don’t get into trouble. Doers will step on toes, it’s inevitable”. If you don’t take chances you’ll never know what you missed. If you take a risk, if it doesn’t work out, at least you tried – no regrets. A lovely article.
Mary-Juen Sohn
Thanks for this Bernie / Matt,
Definitely feeling some fear and self-doubt, and this article was really helpful. You’re right – risks are elimination of regrets.
Fantastic.
matt
Absolutely Mary. Fear and self doubt are always the hurdles to overcome.